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<\/p>\n“We came from different paths and met at a cross road. Will we take the Y path together or go the X paths separately?”<\/p>\n
I have seen many relationships go from passionate love to passionate hate. It seems the more you loved the harder you hate when things don’t work out. I have had my shares of heartbreaks on both sides of the spectrum. Each time I had to remind myself, it was just the wrong time with the wrong person. And yes, I always told myself it was his loss just to make it easier for me to move on.<\/p>\n
In actuality, I don’t think you can blame anyone for a break-up no matter what reason or circumstance – be it infidelity, boredom, need for a space, or the classic ‘I love you but I am not in love with you’. \u00a0 The bottom line is, you can’t fault anyone for not (wanting to love) loving someone because you simply can’t force it. I also don’t think of it as ‘lies’ because I believe when he said he loved you, he really did at that moment. After all, we all love differently and our definitions of ‘love’ may not be the same.\u00a0 People’s feeling change. What we feel a month ago may not be the same today.\u00a0 You just have realize it and move forward.\u00a0 Or course it’s hard.\u00a0 You will cry a river of tears, eat a tub of ice cream, and curse him out with all sorts of profanity.\u00a0 But holding on to regrets or grudges will only hinder your own happiness.<\/p>\n
Love is ……. meeting that special someone and instead of crossing paths, you walk the future path (the Y Path) together until death do us part.\u00a0 I am so lucky I have finally found mine.\u00a0 You will, too, someday.\u00a0 Have faith in yourself.\u00a0 Make your own fairytale come true and live happily ever after.<\/p>\n
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